Day 304: Top Ten Tips for New Dads from Daniel Tomasulo, PHD, Tip 7

7. Teamwork.

The above point having been said, you also need to realize you are part of a team.  You and mom are a tag-team.  This may be a different set of skills than when you are one-on-one.  As an example, when mom was out and I was joyfully bottlefeeding my daughter with breast milk we had pumped for her, everything was wonderful.  But the moment mom came home from her classes, my daughter wasn’t in the mood for Mr. second-best.  She could hear and, through the magic of pheromones, smell mom and wanted to be with her.  This was the transition time.  Recognize that the three of you function like a mobile hanging from the ceiling and are in balance with one another.  As the infant’s needs change, the balance of mom and dad will need to change along with it.

Top Ten Tips for New Dads from Daniel Tomasulo, PHD

http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2011/06/19/10-tips-for-new-fathers/

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